Relations-Honesty

Honesty:

Perhaps there is no one in the world who can be called Honest. Honesty is not limited to transparency in monetary transactions, conversations and Human relations. Each has defined this term in his/her own way. For some, it is related to money only, for some it is about human relations, for many it is just telling clearly about oneself and for few it is about just acceptance of conclusions related to some matter.
Complete honesty is the convergence of Talk, Thought process and Implementations of those thoughts in deeds ultimately; in favour of Human kind. Many just Talk, Many just think and only few execute it. What most important is execution of Right thoughts. If a person is not honest in thinking process or talk but his/her execution represents the example of honesty, then it shall be sufficient for a human kind. If honesty stands for Goodness then sole purpose of this shall be to satisfy souls of others positively. This is an art which might resemble to trick or gimmick some time but many feel good ultimately or results show welfare of many, then it becomes the symbol of Goodness.
If positive intentions are removed from any action then there is no difference between so called terms: good and bad. Many times in Relations, a person might not be aware about the result of action but has sense of doing it then the Timings of that action become crucial. Timings of honesty in revelation of any matter directly depend on the Effect on receiver. If it affects the receiver negatively or result is very painful then such talks can not be categorised as honesty.
Now question arises is how to identify the suitable timing of revelation to particular person. It is the critical understanding of circumstances, and morals/beliefs and mental condition of opposite person. In many cases, when it is difficult to understand the Acceptance criteria of any action by receiver then honest person shall adhere to right timings when he/she doesn’t feel burden of understanding other person’s requirements.
If circumstances indicate that right timings of revelation have passed then it is always better to keep that matter to himself/herself rather than spoiling the mental condition of other person. Then it is onus on honest person to prove his goodness before the other person over a period of time by fulfilling the requirements of other person in right way. When conditions are favouring their relation and both are completely dedicated to one another without any doubt in minds of both parties, then those matters can be revealed. Right intentions always can be proven and deserve the triumph.